5 Ladder Theory Dating Tips
The Ladder Theory is a semi-scientific means of explaining how men and women gauge the opposite sex on first impressions. According to the Ladder Theory, the decision is made rather quickly. Below are 5 easy Ladder Theory Dating Tips anyone can follow.
Ladder Theory Dating Tip #1:
According to the Ladder Theory, men’s attraction to women is based 60% on looks. That being said, look your best ladies. We’re not telling you it’s the only thing that matters but looking your best can’t hurt. This means dressing sytlish, wearing nice perfume, and flattering make up; it does not mean dressing slutty.
Ladder Theory Dating Tip #2:
The Ladder Theory States that 30% of men’s attraction to a woman is based on how easily they believe they can sleep with her, “believe” being the keyword. Simply put, don’t be a prude, because it won’t get you very far, but don’t give all your goods to early either. Think of them as a nine course meal. Start off with small things that will entice the appetite; that way when the meal comes, he’ll still be hungry.
Ladder Theory Dating Tip #3:
As you probably already know, the Ladder Theory states that women base 60% of their attraction on a man’s wealth. Ladies, if you want to find yourself a rich guy, then you’ll need to look in the right places. Without going into too much detail: country clubs (golfing), tennis clubs, posh malls, restaurants and bars, as well as charity functions and cultural events, all make excellent places for snagging a sugar daddy.
Ladder Theory Dating Tip #4:
30% of women’s attraction is based on looks, according to the Ladder Theory. While hot looks can definitely mak a girl stick around, they’re not everything. Plainly speaking, an artistic hunk will only get you so far with poems and loves songs; if you want to live the priviledged life, you’ll have to pay more attention to the previous tip.
Ladder Theory Dating Tip #5:
All other components of attracion for women make 10% of the basis for the Ladder Theory. In reality, it isn’t much. However, it is worth noting that among that slice of pie, what matters most is intellect and sexual prowess. The first is easy enough to find. The second is always a toss up. You’ll never know if he’s Don Juan or Don Non. If it’s the latter, don’t wait for him to improve. MenA man with sexual prowess should charm a woman in the bedroom, right off the bat.
Just remember a “Good Ladder” is elastic and can range differntly depending on the individual. One person may lean towards hotness and sexual performance, where another may be seeking loyalty and common intrests. When everything is said and done, just be sure your pleasing yourself and doing what’s best for you. Most importantly, learn what your “Best Ladder” should encompass.
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September 22nd, 2009 at 7:09 pm
The Ladder Theory seems like an interesting hypothesis. I liked the dating tips that were based on the theory. They seemed practical and useful. Send some more along.
October 6th, 2009 at 4:16 pm
I like your ladder theory. The problem I have is what you define as wealth? If a guy can take care of himself that’s a big part of the equation. A guy with a lot of money is good but not a be all end all.
Yes men are more into looks than women but we still like a nice looking guy =)
October 7th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
This is the first I have heard of this theory. Some people may think that it’s too simplistic. But I think there’s a lot of truth in it. You see the evidence all the time. For example, beautiful women go for rich guys, and vice versa.
It’s definitely worth considering. Howver, you wouldn’t want to obey it too slavishly. Then guys who aren’t that into money will end up pretending to be rich. And women who aren’t at all vain will end up looking like they are!
In the long run, I think it’s best to remain true to yourself. It might take longer, but you’re more likely to find a compatible partner that way.