If your first date went well there should always be a second date. If you want to reassure you get that date then follow these simple steps:

1. Find Out Your Dates Interest: You can do this even before the first date. Do some research about upcoming events or movies. You can mention that event, movie, or actor in the conversation just to see your date’s reaction. If their reaction is good, you can bring up the event or movie at a later date and see if your date wants to go.

2. Make Sure Your Second Date Is Exciting: Most first dates are the same, such as dinner and a movie. During the upcoming days after your original date you can state something along the lines of “Since our date last time was nice and conversational, how about we up it by playing a game of pool for our second date?” Show that you can be fun and unpredictable and that your next date won’t be the same old traditional date.

3. Listening Skills Show Them Up: A big turn off for people on dates is when their date is not listening or paying any attention to what is being said. Show that you are very interested in what they are saying. You will gain big points just for this.

Now you have some secrets to gain that second date. Try them out! If you don’t have a first date planned? Try adult dating and get that date.

Feb 3, 2011 marks the beginning of the Chinese New Year of the Rabbit, which tends to be more on the leisure side. Last year was the year of the Tiger, and many experienced the highs and lows of 2010. The Rabbit has a peaceful nature, so this year will bring you more time to spend with your loved ones. If you have estranged relatives, this is your time to make amends. If you are single, 2011 is the year to put yourself out there and gain a romantic love interest. Personal development is top priority during the year of the Rabbit, express yourself through any method you choose.

Make sure you take full advantage of the positive energy of this year. You will in turn make yourself happier and healthier.