Whether you are already in a relationship or thinking of getting into one you’ll need to memorize these next 10 tips. By following these very simple yet important relationship tips you’ll be well on your way to having or maintaining a healthy, happy and successful relationship. None of these things will take up all your time or cost you anything; yet not doing them can cost you both your happiness and your relationship. While many of them seem like common sense they easily become forgotten and over looked once the comfort levels set in and daily life takes over.

Remember Your Manners – Always remember to say ”please,” “thank you” and “you’re welcome.” It means a lot more then we think and it helps to show your partner that you appreciate him and aren’t trying to take him for granted.

Variety, variety, variety – Switch things up and try new things. Don’t allow your life or your love life get stuck in routine. It’s been proven in studies that dullness equals dissatisfaction in a relationship. Try new things like going to a new restaurant or taking a trip.

Be Playful – There’s a old saying that says it best “The couple that plays together, stays together.” Look for something that you both enjoy doing together. It can anything dancing, playing a sport, hiking you name it just do it. Use it as time for you to be able to relax and just have fun with one another.

Fight fair - Yes you heard me, fight fair. That means no name calling, finger pointing, interrupting or temper tantrums. If you see things are getting too heated take a break and go for a breather to regroup and collect your thoughts.  It’s never a good idea to have a serious conversation when someone is angry.

Lear To Compromise – Rather then making demands make suggestions. Better yet rather then making demands learn to make compromises. In other words can you do ____ for me and I’ll do ____ for you. Or I’ll do this for you if you can do that for me type of deal. This way both parties walk away winners getting something they both want. Just don’t over do it remember sometimes you simply have to do things from the heart.

You’re partners not individuals – Two heads are better than one. Being in a relationship means you’ve now become one, you’ve had to merge your life with another’s. His problems are her problems just as her problems are his. Rather then seeking out ways for them to fix issues decide to work on and address the issues together.

Everyone needs a little me time – It’s actually believed and proven that a little distance makes the heart grow fonder. It’s important that you keep and maintain your own friendships. Don’t loose your identity and life go out occasionally with friends and enjoy the breather and time away. This will give you a chance to miss one another and help you to appreciate your time together.

Laughter is the best medicine – DOn’t take life or situations that arise too seriously. Learn to laugh things off and even to laugh at yourself. What ever happens remember that it’s not the end of the world. Don’t allow the little things to keep you from seeing the bigger picture.

Don’t forget about the little yet important things - Develop a routine or ritual to help keep the spark alive. It can be as simple as saying I love or kissing each other every time you part ways or renewing wedding vows,  planning monthly date nights or yearly vacations. The point is just pick some things and stick to them no matter how tempted you may be to skip it.

Quitters never win, when things get tough seek help - It’s been proven in many studies that the couples who seek out counseling have much more success then those who don’t. None of us are perfect and no matter how many relationship books we read we still have imperfections that need to be addressed. Seek the guidance or help of someone who specializes in your relationships whether its from a religious figure, a counselor or mental health professional.

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